Call Me When You're Sober: Difference between revisions

From The Evanescence Reference
No edit summary
 
(9 intermediate revisions by 2 users not shown)
Line 3: Line 3:
''Written by: [[A. Lee]] and [[T. Balsamo]]''
''Written by: [[A. Lee]] and [[T. Balsamo]]''


'''''Call Me When You're Sober''''' is the second track and the first single from [[Evanescence]]'s second studio album, ''[[The Open Door]]''. Amy's sisters, [[Carrie Lee|Carrie]] and [[Lori Lee|Lori]], performed background vocals for the song (I've made up your ''mind''). "Call Me When You're Sober" officially went for radio adds on August 7, 2006,<ref name=todtracklist /> but the song had been leaked on July 30, 2006 forcing radio stations to play the song early.<ref name=vocus /> According to [[John Lee]], this song wasn't originally intended to be on the album.<ref name=johncmwys />
'''''Call Me When You're Sober''''' is the second track and the first single from [[Evanescence]]'s second studio album, ''[[The Open Door]]''. Amy's sisters, [[Carrie Lee|Carrie]] and [[Lori Lee|Lori]], performed background vocals for the song (I've made up your ''mind''). "Call Me When You're Sober" officially went for radio ads on August 7, 2006,<ref name=todtracklist /> but the song had been leaked on July 30, 2006 forcing radio stations to play the song early.<ref name=vocus />  


The song is about Amy's past relationship with [[Shaun Morgan]]. Around when the single was out on the radio, Shaun announced that he was going into rehab. Amy also said that the song is about other things in her life, "it was also about the people I was working with that were kind of holding me down and manipulating me and betraying me. I had to put my foot down and walk out the door."<ref name=inspsober />
The song is about Amy's past relationship with [[Shaun Morgan]]. When the single was out on the radio, Shaun announced that he was going into rehab. Amy also said that the song is about other things in her life, "it was also about the people I was working with that were kind of holding me down and manipulating me and betraying me. I had to put my foot down and walk out the door."<ref name=inspsober />
 
Amy wrote the song for herself and didn't think it was for the band, adding "I was just joking around having a good time, making myself feel good. Now it's a single."<ref name=TheAge />


Amy's description of the song:
Amy's description of the song:
Line 11: Line 13:
{{quote|''It's very obvious who it's about. I know that people would read between the lines and think it's about my ex-boyfriend Shaun Morgan [of Seether], but I wanted to be completely clear. I needed so bad to say exactly what I was feeling for so long. Music is therapy for me. It's my outlet for every negative thing I've ever been through. It lets me turn something bad into something beautiful.''<ref name=vh1 />}}
{{quote|''It's very obvious who it's about. I know that people would read between the lines and think it's about my ex-boyfriend Shaun Morgan [of Seether], but I wanted to be completely clear. I needed so bad to say exactly what I was feeling for so long. Music is therapy for me. It's my outlet for every negative thing I've ever been through. It lets me turn something bad into something beautiful.''<ref name=vh1 />}}


In a interview with ''Spin'' in October 2006, she said:
In an interview with ''Kerrang!'' in September 2006:
 
{{Quote|''That whole thing wasn't a bad relationship, but it was a very bad break-up. It was awful. [...] So I ended the relationship, packed some stuff, left Los Angeles and rented a house in Florida. This was this time last year. And 'Call Me When You're Sober' spilled straight out of me. It was very cathartic. After that I moved to New York. I'm not suggesting that leaving your house and moving across the country is the way to get out of a relationship, but it worked for me.''<ref name=kerrangsept2006>{{cite journal|last=Winwood|first=Ian|title=The End of Heartache|journal=Kerrang!|year=2006|month=September|pages=23-24|url=https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10155259974270739&set=a.10155259918600739%E2%80%8E‎}}</ref>}}
 
In an interview with ''Spin'' in October 2006, she said:


{{quote|''I had no intention of hurting [Shaun], but when the song came out so bluntly instead of hiding behind metaphors, I had to keep it. There were times when I was like, "Am I really gonna say this?" My favorite line is when I sing, "I've made up your mind" at the end, after singing "Make up your mind" the whole song. It's like, "I've had enough. I'm worth a lot more than this." But at the same time, I don't hate Shaun. I hope he gets healthy and finds happiness.''<ref name=spin />}}
{{quote|''I had no intention of hurting [Shaun], but when the song came out so bluntly instead of hiding behind metaphors, I had to keep it. There were times when I was like, "Am I really gonna say this?" My favorite line is when I sing, "I've made up your mind" at the end, after singing "Make up your mind" the whole song. It's like, "I've had enough. I'm worth a lot more than this." But at the same time, I don't hate Shaun. I hope he gets healthy and finds happiness.''<ref name=spin />}}
Line 19: Line 25:
{{quote|''It's mostly a chick anthem: 'You only want me when you're drunk. You only want me because I'm not there.' I definitely get a lot of girls who are like, 'That's my song. I assigned that ringtone to my ex-boyfriend.'''<ref name=chickanth />}}
{{quote|''It's mostly a chick anthem: 'You only want me when you're drunk. You only want me because I'm not there.' I definitely get a lot of girls who are like, 'That's my song. I assigned that ringtone to my ex-boyfriend.'''<ref name=chickanth />}}


During a interview with ''Songfacts'' in 2016, she explained how she reframes the song when she sings it live:
During an interview with ''Songfacts'' in 2016, she explained how she reframes the song when she sings it live:


{{quote|''That song is more about a breakup. The ending of a relationship and getting to the place with yourself where you're finally willing to stand up for yourself. Put your foot down when you know you need to. It's the harder path to step out into the unknown.''
{{quote|''That song is more about a breakup. The ending of a relationship and getting to the place with yourself where you're finally willing to stand up for yourself. Put your foot down when you know you need to. It's the harder path to step out into the unknown.''
Line 25: Line 31:
''It's easy for me to apply that across the board to lots of situations in my life. When I'm singing that live, I definitely have different places where I go with it these days.''<ref name=songfacts />}}
''It's easy for me to apply that across the board to lots of situations in my life. When I'm singing that live, I definitely have different places where I go with it these days.''<ref name=songfacts />}}


In another interview, she talked about how the song came about:
In another interview in December 2016, she talked about how the song came about:


{{quote|''[Former Evanescence guitarist] Terry [Balsamo] and I were at a campout writing session. We rented a place in Florida near the water and just stayed there for months. I was playing around with this song, and he could hear it from the other room. He was working on a heavy riff, not like what I was doing at all. I was like, “Would it be super weird if these two things mashed up?” I love this song because it has this fun spirit that was new for us as a band. You can still be heavy with a smile on your face.''<ref name=ew2016 />}}
{{quote|''[Former Evanescence guitarist] Terry [Balsamo] and I were at a campout writing session. We rented a place in Florida near the water and just stayed there for months. I was playing around with this song, and he could hear it from the other room. He was working on a heavy riff, not like what I was doing at all. I was like, “Would it be super weird if these two things mashed up?” I love this song because it has this fun spirit that was new for us as a band. You can still be heavy with a smile on your face.''<ref name=ew2016 />}}


Rumors said that the song's final melody was modified by [[Wind-up Records]] because the record company wanted it to be the first single and be special. According to the rumors, this was the reason why the album was released some months later than the first release date that became known to the audience. Amy referred to that on EvBoard.com:
She also said about the process that: ''Wind up didn't choose this single- I did, and I had to fight for it. I love this song. Also, they didn't change anything about it. This is the way we made it. We fought over the guitar part but eventually just got the mix right.''<ref name=amyguitar />
 
{{quote|''Wind up didn't choose this single- I did, and I had to fight for it. I love this song. Also, they didn't change anything about it. This is the way we made it. We fought over the guitar part but eventually just got the mix right.''<ref name=amyguitar />}}
 
''Call Me When You're Sober'' was added to the setlist during [[The Open Door Tour|The Open Door's tour]] during 2006 and 2007.<ref name=mtvham /><ref name=saltair /><ref name=projocement /> It was later performed at the ''[[Legends & Lyrics]]'' concert in Nashville on February 23, 2009.<ref name=upvenue2009 /> It was also added to the setlist in 2011-12 to support ''[[Evanescence (album)|Evanescence]]''.<ref name=hollywoodoct /><ref name=blabberaugust /><ref name=whiplash />


When the song was performed at 2012 Revolver Golden Gods Awards, Amy gave the finger when she sang "I've made up your mind".<ref name=goldengods2012 /> It should be noted that Shaun Morgan was in the audience.
''Call Me When You're Sober'' was added to the setlist during [[The Open Door Tour|The Open Door's tour]] during 2006 and 2007.<ref name=mtvham /><ref name=saltair /><ref name=projocement /> It was later performed at the ''[[Legends & Lyrics]]'' concert in Nashville on February 23, 2009.<ref name=upvenue2009 /> It was also added to the setlist in 2011-12 to support ''[[Evanescence (album)|Evanescence]]''.<ref name=hollywoodoct /><ref name=blabberaugust /><ref name=whiplash /> It's also been part of some set lists of [[The Bitter Truth|''The Bitter Truth'' tour]] from 2021-23.  


== Versions ==
== Versions ==
Line 52: Line 54:


'''Call Me When You're Sober [Live]'''
'''Call Me When You're Sober [Live]'''
*''Performing period:'' October 5, 2006 - December 8, 2007; November 2009; August 17, 2011 - November 9, 2012; November 2015; April 30, 2016 - July 9, 2017
*''Performing period:'' October 5, 2006 - December 8, 2007; November 2009; August 17, 2011 - November 9, 2012; November 2015; April 30, 2016 - July 9, 2017; May 3 - September 26, 2019; November 5 - December 11, 2021; January 14 - December 14, 2022; February 25 - October 2023
*''Status:'' Unreleased
*''Status:'' Unreleased
*''Examples:'' Kool Haus, Toronto, Canada (October 5, 2006)
*''Examples:'' Kool Haus, Toronto, Canada (October 5, 2006)


'''Call Me When You're Sober [Acoustic]'''
'''Call Me When You're Sober [Acoustic]'''
*''Performing dates:'' August - September 2006; February 23, 2009
*''Performing dates:'' August - September 2006; February 23, 2009 (Legends & Lyrics); March 5, 2018 (The Strombo Show)
*''Status:'' Released
*''Status:'' Released
*''Released on:'' All [[Call Me When_You're Sober Single|"Call Me When You're Sober" singles]]
*''Released on:''
:All [[Call Me When_You're Sober Single|"Call Me When You're Sober" singles]]
:Japanese editions of ''The Open Door'' (track #14)
*''Recording date:'' August 13, 2006
*''Recording date:'' August 13, 2006
*''Recording place:'' New York City
*''Recording place:'' New York City
Line 119: Line 123:
== Video ==
== Video ==
[[Image:callmevideo.jpg|thumb|right|180px|Video still of ''Call Me When You're Sober'']]
[[Image:callmevideo.jpg|thumb|right|180px|Video still of ''Call Me When You're Sober'']]
The video for "Call Me When You're Sober", produced by [[Marc Webb]],<ref name=videostatic /> was filmed in Hollywood, California, and was officially released on August 7th, 2006 on MTV.<ref name=faceherself/> It features a theme that is loosely based on Little Red Riding Hood.
The video for "Call Me When You're Sober", produced by [[Marc Webb]] with a budget of $400,000,<ref name=videostatic /><ref name=budget /> was filmed in Hollywood, California, and was officially released on August 7th, 2006 on MTV.<ref name=faceherself/> It features a theme that is loosely based on Little Red Riding Hood.


{{quote|These live wolves came in, and they each had trainers and it was really fun. I thought it was really cool, but then when they came in, they were 150 pounds. So I was like, 'Wow, if I got on all fours, I'd be about the same size as this huge animal.' But it was me and the wolves in the room, and it was all cool. It was awesome. My allergies kicked in, but I powered through. And then we shot the scene at the vanity with the Big Bad Wolf coming over my shoulders and trying to seduce me. The song is so literal, the lyrics and everything — I mean, obviously, just by the title — that we felt like the video would have the freedom to go in a less literal direction. So it's [a modern re-imagining of] Little Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf and sort of a more cool, superhero, rock and roll Little Red Riding Hood.<ref name=faceherself />}}
{{quote|These live wolves came in, and they each had trainers and it was really fun. I thought it was really cool, but then when they came in, they were 150 pounds. So I was like, 'Wow, if I got on all fours, I'd be about the same size as this huge animal.' But it was me and the wolves in the room, and it was all cool. It was awesome. My allergies kicked in, but I powered through. And then we shot the scene at the vanity with the Big Bad Wolf coming over my shoulders and trying to seduce me. The song is so literal, the lyrics and everything — I mean, obviously, just by the title — that we felt like the video would have the freedom to go in a less literal direction. So it's [a modern re-imagining of] Little Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf and sort of a more cool, superhero, rock and roll Little Red Riding Hood.<ref name=faceherself />}}


The Big Bad Wolf in the video, [[Oliver Goodwill]], is from the UK.  He has been playing drums for 17 years. He posts on [[EvBoard]] under nickname realwolf, though EvBoarders affectonately call him 'Wolfie'.
The Big Bad Wolf in the video, [[Oliver Goodwill]], is from the UK.  He has been playing drums for 17 years. He posts on [[EvBoard]] under nickname realwolf, though EvBoarders affectionately call him 'Wolfie'.


Watch the video on [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RrA-R5VHQs YouTube.com].
Watch the video on [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_RrA-R5VHQs YouTube.com].
Line 151: Line 155:
<ref name=todtracklist>{{cite news|title=Evanescence: 'The Open Door' Track Listing Revealed|url=http://www.blabbermouth.net/news/evanescence-the-open-door-track-listing-revealed|accessdate=September 8, 2013|work=Blabbermouth.net|date=July 6, 2006}}</ref>
<ref name=todtracklist>{{cite news|title=Evanescence: 'The Open Door' Track Listing Revealed|url=http://www.blabbermouth.net/news/evanescence-the-open-door-track-listing-revealed|accessdate=September 8, 2013|work=Blabbermouth.net|date=July 6, 2006}}</ref>


<ref name=vocus>{{cite web|url=http://www.prweb.com/releases/2006/8/prweb418990.htm|title=Evanescence’s New Single 'Call Me When You’re Sober' Made Available to US Radio via Digital Distribution|work=Vocus|date=August 1, 2006|accessdate=June 8, 2013}}</ref>
<ref name=vocus>{{cite web|url=http://www.prweb.com/releases/2006/8/prweb418990.htm|title=Evanescence’s New Single 'Call Me When You’re Sober' Made Available to US Radio via Digital Distribution|work=Vocus|date=August 1, 2006|accessdate=June 8, 2013|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20121015124605/http://www.prweb.com/releases/2006/8/prweb418990.htm|archivedate=October 15, 2012}}</ref>
 
<ref name=johncmwys>{{cite web|last=Lee|first=John|date=December 7, 2006|url=http://www.evboard.com/daddy-lees-evanescence-article-35809.html|title=Daddy Lee's Evanescence article|work=[[EvBoard]]|accessdate=May 6, 2013|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20080324005109/http://www.evboard.com/daddy-lees-evanescence-article-35809.html|archivedate=March 24, 2008}}</ref>


<ref name=inspsober>{{cite news|last=Harris|first=Chris|date=August 10, 2006|url=http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1538267/amy-lee-reveals-inspiration-behind-sober.jhtml|title=Evanescence Set For Fall Tour; Amy Lee Reveals Inspiration Behind 'Sober'|work=MTV News|accessdate=June 8, 2013}}</ref>
<ref name=inspsober>{{cite news|last=Harris|first=Chris|date=August 10, 2006|url=http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1538267/amy-lee-reveals-inspiration-behind-sober.jhtml|title=Evanescence Set For Fall Tour; Amy Lee Reveals Inspiration Behind 'Sober'|work=MTV News|accessdate=June 8, 2013|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20110629124259/http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1538267/amy-lee-reveals-inspiration-behind-sober.jhtml|archivedate=June 29, 2011}}</ref>


<ref name=vh1>{{cite news|last=Bottomley|first=C.|date=September 18, 2006|archiveurl=http://web.archive.org/web/20061016104811/http://www.vh1.com/news/articles/1540914/story.jhtml|title=Evanescence: Amy Lee Explains the New Songs|work=VH1|url=http://www.vh1.com/news/articles/1540914/story.jhtml|archivedate=October 16, 2006|accessdate=December 3, 2006}}</ref>
<ref name=vh1>{{cite news|last=Bottomley|first=C.|date=September 18, 2006|archiveurl=http://web.archive.org/web/20061016104811/http://www.vh1.com/news/articles/1540914/story.jhtml|title=Evanescence: Amy Lee Explains the New Songs|work=VH1|url=http://www.vh1.com/news/articles/1540914/story.jhtml|archivedate=October 16, 2006|accessdate=December 3, 2006}}</ref>
Line 163: Line 165:
<ref name=amyguitar>{{cite web|last=Lee|first=Amy|date=August 3, 2006|url=http://www.evboard.com/call-me-when-youre-sober-31363-79.html#post936328|title=Call Me When You're Sober|work=[[EvBoard]]|accessdate=November 21, 2007|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20071021042316/http://www.evboard.com/call-me-when-youre-sober-31363-79.html#post936328|archivedate=October 21, 2007}}</ref>
<ref name=amyguitar>{{cite web|last=Lee|first=Amy|date=August 3, 2006|url=http://www.evboard.com/call-me-when-youre-sober-31363-79.html#post936328|title=Call Me When You're Sober|work=[[EvBoard]]|accessdate=November 21, 2007|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20071021042316/http://www.evboard.com/call-me-when-youre-sober-31363-79.html#post936328|archivedate=October 21, 2007}}</ref>


<ref name=mtvham>{{cite news|last=Harris|first=Chris|title=Evanescence Live In NYC: Amy Lee Headbangs, Serenades Her 'New Hometown'|url=http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1542773/evanescence-live-amy-lee-rocks-new-hometown.jhtml|accessdate=September 9, 2013|work=MTV News|date=October 10, 2006}}</ref>
<ref name=mtvham>{{cite news|last=Harris|first=Chris|title=Evanescence Live In NYC: Amy Lee Headbangs, Serenades Her 'New Hometown'|url=http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1542773/evanescence-live-amy-lee-rocks-new-hometown.jhtml|accessdate=September 9, 2013|work=MTV News|date=October 10, 2006|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20121107103906/http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1542773/evanescence-live-amy-lee-rocks-new-hometown.jhtml|archivedate=November 7, 2012}}</ref>


<ref name=saltair>{{cite news|url=http://www.sltrib.com/entertainment/ci_4551883|title=Lee of Evanescence connects at Saltair|work=The Salt Lake Tribune|date=October 27, 2006|accessdate=September 9, 2013}}</ref>
<ref name=saltair>{{cite news|url=http://www.sltrib.com/entertainment/ci_4551883|title=Lee of Evanescence connects at Saltair|work=The Salt Lake Tribune|date=October 27, 2006|accessdate=September 9, 2013|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20061113025325/http://www.sltrib.com/entertainment/ci_4551883|archivedate=November 13, 2006}}</ref>


<ref name=projocement>{{cite news|last=Massimo|first=Rick|title=Amy Lee cements her status as the core of Evanescence|url=http://www.projo.com/music/content/QEVANREV_04-05-07_64548TM.3846ec9.html|accessdate=September 9, 2013|newspaper=The Providence Journal|date=April 5, 2007|archiveurl=http://web.archive.org/web/20080514012353/http://www.projo.com/music/content/QEVANREV_04-05-07_64548TM.3846ec9.html|archivedate=May 14, 2008}}</ref>
<ref name=projocement>{{cite news|last=Massimo|first=Rick|title=Amy Lee cements her status as the core of Evanescence|url=http://www.projo.com/music/content/QEVANREV_04-05-07_64548TM.3846ec9.html|accessdate=September 9, 2013|newspaper=The Providence Journal|date=April 5, 2007|archiveurl=http://web.archive.org/web/20080514012353/http://www.projo.com/music/content/QEVANREV_04-05-07_64548TM.3846ec9.html|archivedate=May 14, 2008}}</ref>
Line 173: Line 175:
<ref name=blabberaugust>{{cite news|title=Evanescence Plays First Show In Almost Two Years; Video Available|url=http://www.blabbermouth.net/news/evanescence-plays-first-show-in-almost-two-years-video-available|accessdate=September 9, 2013|work=Blabbermouth.net|date=August 18, 2011}}</ref>
<ref name=blabberaugust>{{cite news|title=Evanescence Plays First Show In Almost Two Years; Video Available|url=http://www.blabbermouth.net/news/evanescence-plays-first-show-in-almost-two-years-video-available|accessdate=September 9, 2013|work=Blabbermouth.net|date=August 18, 2011}}</ref>


<ref name=whiplash>{{cite web|last=Finatto|first=Paulo, Jr.|title=Resenha - Evanescence (Pepsi on Stage, Porto Alegre, 04/10/12)|url=http://whiplash.net/materias/shows/165121-evanescence.html|work=Whiplash.net|accessdate=September 9, 2013|language=Spanish|date=October 10, 2012}}</ref>
<ref name=whiplash>{{cite web|last=Finatto|first=Paulo, Jr.|title=Resenha - Evanescence (Pepsi on Stage, Porto Alegre, 04/10/12)|url=http://whiplash.net/materias/shows/165121-evanescence.html|work=Whiplash.net|accessdate=September 9, 2013|language=Portuguese|date=October 10, 2012}}</ref>


<ref name=upvenue2009>{{cite web|url=http://www.upvenue.com/music-news/blog-headline/1032/amy-lee-legends-and-lyrics.html|title=Amy Lee Plays Legends And Lyrics|work=UpVenue.com|accessdate=July 20, 2013|date=2009}}</ref>
<ref name=upvenue2009>{{cite web|url=http://www.upvenue.com/music-news/blog-headline/1032/amy-lee-legends-and-lyrics.html|title=Amy Lee Plays Legends And Lyrics|work=UpVenue.com|accessdate=July 20, 2013|date=2009}}</ref>
Line 179: Line 181:
<ref name=videostatic>{{cite web|archiveurl=http://web.archive.org/web/20130203020139/http://www.videostatic.com/vs/2006/week27/index.html|title=Booked: Evanescence - Marc Webb, director|work=Video Static|date=July 2006|url=http://www.videostatic.com/vs/2006/week27/index.html|archivedate=February 3, 2013|accessdate=July 20, 2013}}</ref>
<ref name=videostatic>{{cite web|archiveurl=http://web.archive.org/web/20130203020139/http://www.videostatic.com/vs/2006/week27/index.html|title=Booked: Evanescence - Marc Webb, director|work=Video Static|date=July 2006|url=http://www.videostatic.com/vs/2006/week27/index.html|archivedate=February 3, 2013|accessdate=July 20, 2013}}</ref>


<ref name=faceherself>{{cite news|last=Moss|first=Corey|date=November 20, 2006|url=http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1544656/amy-lee-confronts-herself-lithium-clip.jhtml|title=After Facing Big Bad Wolf, Amy Lee Faces Herself In Evanescence Clip|work=MTV News|accessdate=July 20, 2013}}</ref>
<ref name=faceherself>{{cite news|last=Moss|first=Corey|date=November 20, 2006|url=http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1544656/amy-lee-confronts-herself-lithium-clip.jhtml|title=After Facing Big Bad Wolf, Amy Lee Faces Herself In Evanescence Clip|work=MTV News|accessdate=July 20, 2013|archiveurl=https://web.archive.org/web/20121107151315/http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1544656/amy-lee-confronts-herself-lithium-clip.jhtml|archivedate=November 7, 2012}}</ref>


<ref name=ew2016>{{cite news|last=Goodman|first=Jessica|date=December 5, 2016|url=https://ew.com/article/2016/12/05/evanescence-amy-lee-stories-behind-songs/|title=Evanescence's Amy Lee reveals stories behind the songs|work=EW}}</ref>
<ref name=ew2016>{{cite news|last=Goodman|first=Jessica|date=December 5, 2016|url=https://ew.com/article/2016/12/05/evanescence-amy-lee-stories-behind-songs/|title=Evanescence's Amy Lee reveals stories behind the songs|work=EW}}</ref>
Line 187: Line 189:
<ref name=songfacts>{{cite news|last=MacIntosh|first=Dan|url=https://www.songfacts.com/blog/interviews/amy-lee-of-evanescence|title=Amy Lee of Evanescence: Songwriter Interviews|work=Songfacts|date=October 13, 2016}}</ref>
<ref name=songfacts>{{cite news|last=MacIntosh|first=Dan|url=https://www.songfacts.com/blog/interviews/amy-lee-of-evanescence|title=Amy Lee of Evanescence: Songwriter Interviews|work=Songfacts|date=October 13, 2016}}</ref>


<ref name=goldengods2012>{{cite news|url=https://youtu.be/9d3fIpy7R68?t=543|title=EVANESCENCE @ Golden Gods Awards 2012 Full Performance|work=YouTube|date=2012}}</ref>
<ref name=TheAge>{{cite news|title=Amy Lee's rise to the top|url=https://www.theage.com.au/entertainment/music/amy-lees-rise-to-the-top-20070210-ge46uq.html|work=The Age|date=February 10, 2007}}</ref>
 
<ref name=budget>{{cite news|last=Martoccio|first=Angie|title=Evanescence’s Amy Lee: ‘It’s Time for Us to Take Our Country Back’|url=https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/evanescences-amy-lee-use-my-voice-1044587/|work=Billboard|date=August 14, 2020}}</ref>




Latest revision as of 08:57, 8 September 2024

Across the Universe*
All That I'm Living For
Anything for You
Anywhere
Artifact/The Turn
Ascension of the Spirit
Away from Me
Before the Dawn
Better Without You
Bleed
Blind Belief
Breathe No More
Bring Me to Life
Broken Pieces Shine
Call Me When You're Sober
Catherine
Cloud Nine
Demise
Disappear
End of the Dream
Erase This
Eternal
Even in Death
Everybody's Fool
Exodus
Far From Heaven
Farther Away
Feeding the Dark
Field of Innocence
Forever You
Forgive Me
Give Unto Me
Going Under
Good Enough
Haunted
Hello
Hi-Lo
If You Don't Mind
Imaginary
Imperfection
Instrumental 1
Instrumental 2
Instrumental 3
Instrumental 4
Lacrymosa
Lies
Like You
Listen to the Rain
Lithium
Lose Control
Lost in Paradise
Made of Stone
Me & You
Missing
My Heart Is Broken
My Immortal
My Last Breath
Never Go Back
New Way to Bleed
Oceans
October
Origin
Overture
Part of Me
Perfect Dream
Say You Will
Secret Door
Sick
Snow White Queen
So Close
Solitude
Spanish
Surrender
Sweet Sacrifice
Swimming Home
Take Cover
Taking Over Me
The Chain*
The Change
The End
The Game is Over
The In-Between
The Last Song I'm Wasting on You
The Only One
The Other Side
Together Again
Tourniquet
Understanding
Unknown Title
Unraveling
Use My Voice
Wasted on You
Weight of the World
What You Want
Where Will You Go?
Whisper
Yeah Right
You Got a Lot to Learn
Your Love
Your Star
* Cover songs


Article.png Call Me When You're Sober está disponible en español. Ver el artículo

Το άρθρο Call Me When You're Sober είναι διαθέσιμο στα ελληνικά. Δείτε το άρθρο

Call Me When You're Sober è disponibile in italiano. Vedi l'articolo

Call Me When You're Sober está disponível em português. Ver o artigo

General information

Written by: A. Lee and T. Balsamo

Call Me When You're Sober is the second track and the first single from Evanescence's second studio album, The Open Door. Amy's sisters, Carrie and Lori, performed background vocals for the song (I've made up your mind). "Call Me When You're Sober" officially went for radio ads on August 7, 2006,[1] but the song had been leaked on July 30, 2006 forcing radio stations to play the song early.[2]

The song is about Amy's past relationship with Shaun Morgan. When the single was out on the radio, Shaun announced that he was going into rehab. Amy also said that the song is about other things in her life, "it was also about the people I was working with that were kind of holding me down and manipulating me and betraying me. I had to put my foot down and walk out the door."[3]

Amy wrote the song for herself and didn't think it was for the band, adding "I was just joking around having a good time, making myself feel good. Now it's a single."[4]

Amy's description of the song:

Vin1.jpg It's very obvious who it's about. I know that people would read between the lines and think it's about my ex-boyfriend Shaun Morgan [of Seether], but I wanted to be completely clear. I needed so bad to say exactly what I was feeling for so long. Music is therapy for me. It's my outlet for every negative thing I've ever been through. It lets me turn something bad into something beautiful.[5] Vin2.jpg


In an interview with Kerrang! in September 2006:

Vin1.jpg That whole thing wasn't a bad relationship, but it was a very bad break-up. It was awful. [...] So I ended the relationship, packed some stuff, left Los Angeles and rented a house in Florida. This was this time last year. And 'Call Me When You're Sober' spilled straight out of me. It was very cathartic. After that I moved to New York. I'm not suggesting that leaving your house and moving across the country is the way to get out of a relationship, but it worked for me.[6] Vin2.jpg


In an interview with Spin in October 2006, she said:

Vin1.jpg I had no intention of hurting [Shaun], but when the song came out so bluntly instead of hiding behind metaphors, I had to keep it. There were times when I was like, "Am I really gonna say this?" My favorite line is when I sing, "I've made up your mind" at the end, after singing "Make up your mind" the whole song. It's like, "I've had enough. I'm worth a lot more than this." But at the same time, I don't hate Shaun. I hope he gets healthy and finds happiness.[7] Vin2.jpg


Amy talked about the song in a 2011 interview with Spin:

Vin1.jpg It's mostly a chick anthem: 'You only want me when you're drunk. You only want me because I'm not there.' I definitely get a lot of girls who are like, 'That's my song. I assigned that ringtone to my ex-boyfriend.'[8] Vin2.jpg


During an interview with Songfacts in 2016, she explained how she reframes the song when she sings it live:

Vin1.jpg That song is more about a breakup. The ending of a relationship and getting to the place with yourself where you're finally willing to stand up for yourself. Put your foot down when you know you need to. It's the harder path to step out into the unknown.

It's easy for me to apply that across the board to lots of situations in my life. When I'm singing that live, I definitely have different places where I go with it these days.[9]

Vin2.jpg


In another interview in December 2016, she talked about how the song came about:

Vin1.jpg [Former Evanescence guitarist] Terry [Balsamo] and I were at a campout writing session. We rented a place in Florida near the water and just stayed there for months. I was playing around with this song, and he could hear it from the other room. He was working on a heavy riff, not like what I was doing at all. I was like, “Would it be super weird if these two things mashed up?” I love this song because it has this fun spirit that was new for us as a band. You can still be heavy with a smile on your face.[10] Vin2.jpg


She also said about the process that: Wind up didn't choose this single- I did, and I had to fight for it. I love this song. Also, they didn't change anything about it. This is the way we made it. We fought over the guitar part but eventually just got the mix right.[11]

Call Me When You're Sober was added to the setlist during The Open Door's tour during 2006 and 2007.[12][13][14] It was later performed at the Legends & Lyrics concert in Nashville on February 23, 2009.[15] It was also added to the setlist in 2011-12 to support Evanescence.[16][17][18] It's also been part of some set lists of The Bitter Truth tour from 2021-23.

Versions

Studio Versions

Call Me When You're Sober

  • Recording date: September 2005 - March 2006
  • Status: Released
  • Released on:
The Open Door (track #2) – the first single off the album
All "Call Me When You're Sober" singles
  • Length: 3:34


Live Versions

Call Me When You're Sober [Live]

  • Performing period: October 5, 2006 - December 8, 2007; November 2009; August 17, 2011 - November 9, 2012; November 2015; April 30, 2016 - July 9, 2017; May 3 - September 26, 2019; November 5 - December 11, 2021; January 14 - December 14, 2022; February 25 - October 2023
  • Status: Unreleased
  • Examples: Kool Haus, Toronto, Canada (October 5, 2006)

Call Me When You're Sober [Acoustic]

  • Performing dates: August - September 2006; February 23, 2009 (Legends & Lyrics); March 5, 2018 (The Strombo Show)
  • Status: Released
  • Released on:
All "Call Me When You're Sober" singles
Japanese editions of The Open Door (track #14)
  • Recording date: August 13, 2006
  • Recording place: New York City
  • Length: 3:37

Lyrics

Don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me
Come find me
Make up your mind

Should I let you fall?
Lose it all?
So maybe you can remember yourself
Can't keep believing
We're only deceiving ourselves
And I'm sick of the lie
And you're too late

Don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me
Come find me
Make up your mind

Couldn't take the blame
Sick with shame

Must be exhausting to lose your own game
Selfishly hated, no wonder you're jaded
You can't play the victim this time
And you're too late

Don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
You want me?
Come find me
Make up your mind

You never call me when you're sober
You only want it cause it's over
It's over!

How could I have burned paradise?
How could I?
You were never mine!

So don't cry to me
If you loved me
You would be here with me
Don't lie to me
Just get your things
I've made up your mind

Video

Video still of Call Me When You're Sober

The video for "Call Me When You're Sober", produced by Marc Webb with a budget of $400,000,[19][20] was filmed in Hollywood, California, and was officially released on August 7th, 2006 on MTV.[21] It features a theme that is loosely based on Little Red Riding Hood.

Vin1.jpg These live wolves came in, and they each had trainers and it was really fun. I thought it was really cool, but then when they came in, they were 150 pounds. So I was like, 'Wow, if I got on all fours, I'd be about the same size as this huge animal.' But it was me and the wolves in the room, and it was all cool. It was awesome. My allergies kicked in, but I powered through. And then we shot the scene at the vanity with the Big Bad Wolf coming over my shoulders and trying to seduce me. The song is so literal, the lyrics and everything — I mean, obviously, just by the title — that we felt like the video would have the freedom to go in a less literal direction. So it's [a modern re-imagining of] Little Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf and sort of a more cool, superhero, rock and roll Little Red Riding Hood.[21] Vin2.jpg


The Big Bad Wolf in the video, Oliver Goodwill, is from the UK. He has been playing drums for 17 years. He posts on EvBoard under nickname realwolf, though EvBoarders affectionately call him 'Wolfie'.

Watch the video on YouTube.com.

Commercial release

Exquisite-kfind.png Main article: Call Me When You're Sober Single

The "Call Me When You're Sober" single was released to most of the world on September 18, 2006, and to the UK on September 25, 2006.

Tracks released with this single include:

  1. Call Me When You're Sober [Album version]
  2. Call Me When You're Sober [Acoustic version]
  3. Making Of Call Me When You're Sober [Enhanced CD feature] (05:23)
  4. Call Me When You're Sober Video [Enhanced CD feature]
  • The 'Making Of' clip is a shortened version of the program broadcast by MTV. The full version can be found on YouTube in two parts here and here.

Guitar tabs & sheet music

References

  1. ↑ "Evanescence: 'The Open Door' Track Listing Revealed". Blabbermouth.net. July 6, 2006. http://www.blabbermouth.net/news/evanescence-the-open-door-track-listing-revealed. Retrieved September 8, 2013.
  2. ↑ "Evanescence’s New Single 'Call Me When You’re Sober' Made Available to US Radio via Digital Distribution". Vocus. August 1, 2006. Archived from the original on October 15, 2012. https://web.archive.org/web/20121015124605/http://www.prweb.com/releases/2006/8/prweb418990.htm. Retrieved June 8, 2013.
  3. ↑ Harris, Chris (August 10, 2006). "Evanescence Set For Fall Tour; Amy Lee Reveals Inspiration Behind 'Sober'". MTV News. Archived from the original on June 29, 2011. https://web.archive.org/web/20110629124259/http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1538267/amy-lee-reveals-inspiration-behind-sober.jhtml. Retrieved June 8, 2013.
  4. ↑ "Amy Lee's rise to the top". The Age. February 10, 2007. https://www.theage.com.au/entertainment/music/amy-lees-rise-to-the-top-20070210-ge46uq.html.
  5. ↑ Bottomley, C. (September 18, 2006). "Evanescence: Amy Lee Explains the New Songs". VH1. Archived from the original on October 16, 2006. http://web.archive.org/web/20061016104811/http://www.vh1.com/news/articles/1540914/story.jhtml. Retrieved December 3, 2006.
  6. ↑ Winwood, Ian (September 2006). "The End of Heartache". Kerrang!: 23-24. https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=10155259974270739&set=a.10155259918600739%E2%80%8E‎.
  7. ↑ Maerz, Melissa (October 2006). "She sold more than 15 million albums with Evanescence, only to find herself in abusive relationships". Spin: 67, 68, 70. ISSN 0886-3032. http://books.google.mk/books?id=iemUgvxmQcYC&pg=PA67&dq=evanescence+the+open+door&hl=en&sa=X&ei=CUB_T-TVEo7KtAbxuN2nBA&redir_esc=y#v=onepage&q=evanescence%20the%20open%20door&f=false.
  8. ↑ Dodero, Camille (October 4, 2011). "Tough Questions for Evanescence's Amy Lee". Spin. http://www.spin.com/articles/tough-questions-evanescences-amy-lee/. Retrieved June 8, 2013.
  9. ↑ MacIntosh, Dan (October 13, 2016). "Amy Lee of Evanescence: Songwriter Interviews". Songfacts. https://www.songfacts.com/blog/interviews/amy-lee-of-evanescence.
  10. ↑ Goodman, Jessica (December 5, 2016). "Evanescence's Amy Lee reveals stories behind the songs". EW. https://ew.com/article/2016/12/05/evanescence-amy-lee-stories-behind-songs/.
  11. ↑ Lee, Amy (August 3, 2006). "Call Me When You're Sober". EvBoard. Archived from the original on October 21, 2007. https://web.archive.org/web/20071021042316/http://www.evboard.com/call-me-when-youre-sober-31363-79.html#post936328. Retrieved November 21, 2007.
  12. ↑ Harris, Chris (October 10, 2006). "Evanescence Live In NYC: Amy Lee Headbangs, Serenades Her 'New Hometown'". MTV News. Archived from the original on November 7, 2012. https://web.archive.org/web/20121107103906/http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1542773/evanescence-live-amy-lee-rocks-new-hometown.jhtml. Retrieved September 9, 2013.
  13. ↑ "Lee of Evanescence connects at Saltair". The Salt Lake Tribune. October 27, 2006. Archived from the original on November 13, 2006. https://web.archive.org/web/20061113025325/http://www.sltrib.com/entertainment/ci_4551883. Retrieved September 9, 2013.
  14. ↑ Massimo, Rick (April 5, 2007). "Amy Lee cements her status as the core of Evanescence". The Providence Journal. Archived from the original on May 14, 2008. http://web.archive.org/web/20080514012353/http://www.projo.com/music/content/QEVANREV_04-05-07_64548TM.3846ec9.html. Retrieved September 9, 2013.
  15. ↑ "Amy Lee Plays Legends And Lyrics". UpVenue.com. 2009. http://www.upvenue.com/music-news/blog-headline/1032/amy-lee-legends-and-lyrics.html. Retrieved July 20, 2013.
  16. ↑ Schillaci, Sophie (October 12, 2011). "Evanescence at the Palladium: Concert Review". The Hollywood Reporter. http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/review/evanescence-taylor-momsen-concert-review-247487. Retrieved September 9, 2013.
  17. ↑ "Evanescence Plays First Show In Almost Two Years; Video Available". Blabbermouth.net. August 18, 2011. http://www.blabbermouth.net/news/evanescence-plays-first-show-in-almost-two-years-video-available. Retrieved September 9, 2013.
  18. ↑ Finatto, Paulo, Jr. (October 10, 2012). "Resenha - Evanescence (Pepsi on Stage, Porto Alegre, 04/10/12)" (in Portuguese). Whiplash.net. http://whiplash.net/materias/shows/165121-evanescence.html. Retrieved September 9, 2013.
  19. ↑ "Booked: Evanescence - Marc Webb, director". Video Static. July 2006. Archived from the original on February 3, 2013. http://web.archive.org/web/20130203020139/http://www.videostatic.com/vs/2006/week27/index.html. Retrieved July 20, 2013.
  20. ↑ Martoccio, Angie (August 14, 2020). "Evanescence’s Amy Lee: ‘It’s Time for Us to Take Our Country Back’". Billboard. https://www.rollingstone.com/music/music-news/evanescences-amy-lee-use-my-voice-1044587/.
  21. ↑ 21.0 21.1 Moss, Corey (November 20, 2006). "After Facing Big Bad Wolf, Amy Lee Faces Herself In Evanescence Clip". MTV News. Archived from the original on November 7, 2012. https://web.archive.org/web/20121107151315/http://www.mtv.com/news/articles/1544656/amy-lee-confronts-herself-lithium-clip.jhtml. Retrieved July 20, 2013.
Albums
EPs
Studio
Demo
Live
Compilation
Singles
Promotional singles
Evanescence stuff
Retrieved from "https://evanescencereference.info/wiki/index.php?title=Call_Me_When_You%27re_Sober&oldid=40602"